As part of Interfaith Week, Surrey Minority Ethnic Forum organised a visit to the Jewish Living Experience exhibition at the North West Surrey Synagogue on Monday 17 November. The aim was to deepen understanding, build relationships, and create space for people of all faiths and none to learn directly from one another. Attenders included Muslims, Christians from several denominations, Jews, Baha’i community members, and others, making it a rich and diverse group.
The visit began with an introduction to the meaning and purpose of the synagogue. We learned that the word synagogue comes from the Greek for coming together, while in Hebrew it is known as the House of Assembly. The eastern wall faces Jerusalem, and at its heart stands the ark containing the Torah scrolls, each one handwritten with extraordinary precision over the course of a year.
The group explored Jewish identity, tradition, and diversity, discovering the wide range of practices across Orthodox, Masorti, Reform and Liberal communities (the last two now combined as “Progressive Judaism”). Discussions touched on traditional dress, family customs, the evolving roles of women, and how different communities embrace LGBTQ+ members. This openness helped many visitors understand that Judaism is a varied and living faith shaped by history, culture, and community life.
We were guided through Jewish rituals, symbolism, and sacred practices, including the Shema prayer, dietary laws of Kashrut, and the meaning behind head coverings. The group also learned how food, family meals, and tradition are woven into Jewish life, from the separation of milk and meat to the weekly rhythm of Shabbat. Stories of festivals such as Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Sukkot, Hanukkah, Passover, and Purim brought these traditions to life in warm and relatable ways.
There was time to explore Jewish life events, including Bar and Bat Mitzvahs, marriage under the chuppah, and mourning rituals such as sitting Shiva. These insights highlighted the continuity, community support, and deep sense of identity that Jewish tradition carries through every stage of life. Burial customs and the significance of cemeteries, both local and international, were also discussed.
A highlight of the visit was the chance to see the Torah scrolls up close. For many attenders, this was a rare and special moment, offering a glimpse into the heart of Jewish worship. Visitors were encouraged to ask questions, compare similarities with their own faith practices, and reflect on shared values.
With thanks to Philip Goldenberg and Stuart Lanceman from the North West Surrey Synagogue for organising the exhibition and speaking so generously about Jewish living. Their warmth and openness set the tone for a meaningful and memorable visit.
The afternoon demonstrated the importance of Interfaith Week in bringing communities together, breaking down misconceptions, and building friendships rooted in respect and curiosity. By learning directly from the Jewish community, attenders left with a deeper appreciation of both the diversity within Judaism and the values that connect all faith traditions.
